Hi Ok first sex has to be enjoyable, and the enjoyment is a two way thing, if its hurting then stop and see just were your going wrong.
If its hurting stopping for a couple of weeks or longer will only make things worst in the long run, meaning that you will shy away from it even more, people say just putting oil or cream on it will do the trick, there's more to it than that, when your making love/having sex, lots of foreplay really is a big need, you or your husband should not be looking for wham bam thank you mam, it really needs to go far deeper than that.
Laying off sex will reduce the size of your vagina, not total shrinkage, but it will get smaller, making sex even harder for you both.
If foreplay is not getting you both there in bringing your natural juices out, then that's the time to bring in sex oils, I think oils is the best way to go.
Or you could try putting your self on vitamin B6, its said to do wonders for keeping the female juices running for most of the cycle.
Do hope this helps.
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